GRETCHEN AND LAURA
We met in Morris Hills around 1962, I believe. We were going to be in Kindergarten in the fall, and our mothers were searching for their little girls to “meet a new friend” before the school year started. I don’t recalled how it happened exactly, but one day my mother walked me down the street to this big two story home, where I met Gretchen, her sister, Melanie, and her Mom, Jean “Mrs. Linden” (to me). I remember meeting her Dad, Bill “Mr. Linden” at another time, as it was during the day, and he was at school, teaching. We colored pictures, we played with Gretchen’s toys, got to know each other in the way that kids do. I remember having so much fun, that I couldn’t wait to go back down the street and see her again. Kindergarten started, but I don’t believe we were in the same class together, there were morning and afternoon classes, and I recall going in the morning, and Gretchen in the afternoon. I know that if we would have been together, we would have been in trouble all of the time, because of our constant talking and giggling. One day Gretchen told me they were moving, but not far away, just down the hill at the big white house above the Morris Hills playground/park. I thought that her first house was really neat, but this house was awesome, and we seemed to do more things there, like slide down the staircase on pillows! I remember being upstairs in her room and listening to records, the one record I really recall (beside the BEATLES) was a song, or perhaps it was the soundtrack from “Peter and the Wolf”. I can still recall that tune. It was the home that I had my first “sleepover”, at the age of six, and being brought home in the middle of the night by Mrs. L, as I was “scared and missed my mom!” We played Monopoly, we played with Play Dough, and Gretchen could always make the coolest things with the stuff. She was so creative with it. She taught me how to stack three different size balls to create a snowman, and all his accessories. I remember the house had a big hill in the back, and we use to go sledding there when it snowed. We would go to the park and swing and go down the slide. We would cross over the little bridge that sometimes had a stream that went under it and we walked up and around on the side of the hill on the trails. We liked to pretend that we were in another country.
It was at that park one day we were playing and were almost kidnapped. We were at the swings and a car pulled up, it was a tan station wagon. A man in a dark raincoat got out and started walking toward us. There was a little bridge that you walked over from the street as I recall, and he was crossing that bridge and called out, “Hey girls, I have some candy, would you like to go for a ride?” I remember grabbing Gretchen’s hand, and running up the hill toward my house on Crown Drive, and yelling, “Run, Gretchen, Run!”, and we were screaming, and it was a steep hill. It had a path with stones for footing, and I looked back to see where he was, and he was running back to his car. I remember the police being called, and they came out and talked to each of us, but he was never found. I just know that we were not allowed to go the park anymore unless we had Melanie or someone older with us.
Finally, another day came, and Gretchen told me they were going to move again, this time further away and we would not go to the same school together any longer. We were sad, but our mothers told us that we could call each other on the phone and we could take turns at spending the night at each other’s house. We were older then, and I wasn’t scared any longer. Actually, we were going to be a little closer together, as my dad was building our home in Lakeview Acres, 53 Will-Vina and we would be moving there soon. (Feb ‘65).
And we did stay in touch, and spending the night at each other’s house about once a month or so. We would play records, play Ouija Board, hold a Séance, talk about the boys that we liked I remember when the Beatles came to town, Gretchen’s Mom and Dad came over to talk to my mom and dad and inviting me to go see them. They were going to be the chaperones. However, I was not allowed to go, “nope, somebody could just snatch you up in that big crowd over there, and we’d never see you again.” I told them many, many years later that that was something I could never forgive them for, and they just said, “Oh well, okay.” Well the Beatles came and went and then broke up, and many years later, Gretchen and I became Jackson Five fans. We decided that she would be “Jermaine” and I would be “Tito”. We were in love with the Jackson Five; I think we even joined the fan club. It was also around that time that Gretchen was really getting into drawing, and she was sooo good at it. My mom and dad even gave the okay to draw on my walls in my room. So Gretchen did Snap, Crackle and Pop above my door, and then she did The Pillsbury Dough Boy on one wall, and a big orange sunflower in the corner. I had the coolest room! I remember she talked about drawing a big giraffe up the wall and going across the ceiling to “bite” the light bulb in the middle of the ceiling. But, we would have needed a ladder and it was too dangerous of an idea. . but she was so creative to think of the ideas she had.
It was my Lakeview Acres house too, that once again; Gretchen and I were almost kidnapped (what was up with that?). We went over to the frontage road to Highway 70, and we would try to get the truckers to toot their horns at us. Some guy pulled up in a white sedan and leaned over to open the passenger side door and said, “Hop in girls, let’s go for a ride!” I grabbed Gretchen’s hand, “Run, Gretchen, Run!” so we ran for home, told my mom and she said, “You girls just stay in the house and play records!” “Forget about bike riding, forget about walking the neighborhood, and just stay in.”
I remember birthday parties at each other’s house, a roller skating party I had one year at the Skate-A-Rama in Fairview Heights/Belleville. I remember braiding Gretchen’s long hair while it was wet to see how cool it would turn out when it was dry. We used to iron mine and then watch it frizz again when I would go outside. We loved to watch “I Dream of Jeannie” and “The Monkeys”. We went to Miners Theatre to the movies sometimes – I’m sure we saw “Help” and “A Hard Day’s Night”. I was invited sometimes to go to “Gaslight Swimming Pool”, and have so much fun. I always felt so grown-up and groovy going there, it was such a treat. I still have in my jewelry box from when I was a kid, the charm bracelet that Gretchen gave me, some gold initial L A S pins, and a silver bracelet that I wore to a Paul McCartney concert, maybe five years ago now, or so. I remember putting it on, and in the middle of the concert I noticed it was gone. I remember sitting there at the concert with tears streaming down my eyes, I was so upset that it was gone. However, I was ever so excited, happy and thankful that it was in my car on the floor in the back seat. It must have flipped off when I took, or put on my seat belt. I have not worn it since, as I need to have it repaired, if it can be.
I remember the home on Knoll Drive (10 was it?), and the orchards that we used to go sledding in. I also remember after a rain, all the little toads that would come out, we used to love to watch them, but I don’t recall if we picked them up or not (ewe). I remember how Melanie and Gretchen shared the back bedroom for awhile, and then when babies Adrienne and Christina came along, the big girls moved downstairs! They even had a bathroom down there! I recall Gretchen drew on those walls too, right? What an artist! We used to play Twister down there . . .. and record, after record. Melanie, I remember your friends, Diane Huber and Jane Giddings (right?) They were always so nice to us; we thought it was so neat to hang out with the big girls sometimes. With me not having any sisters, it was a real treat. But sometimes you big gals didn’t want us little gals around, and we had to go and do our own thing. I loved trying to play the piano you had . . .I still only know the same songs now as I did then, only a few . I remember a dog you all had, “Greta” a Dachshund? I remember being in a car accident with your mom at the entrance off of Vandalia to Orchards shopping center. We were turning in, and your mom yelled “Girls hang on!” and wham – we were hit from behind. I especially remember Gretchen being worried about the baby that wasn’t born yet, and thankfully no one was hurt.
I remember peanut butter on toast in the morning for breakfast – what a yummy treat that was then. I can remember your Dad taught us that one (I do believe) - he’d make that for us. Still love it now, only I’ve switched to Almond Butter.
The years went by, and high school separated us with each of us enjoying or own interests – we would still talk to each other in the halls and see how the other one was doing. I was all about baton twirling and pom-pom girls and we each had our boyfriends. Then graduation came and went, and like a lot of friendships, folks lose tough with each other. I saw Gretchen at our Five Year reunion, and we had a great visit then. Then I moved to Arizona in 1981 and made it back to the reunions, but never saw Gretchen and wondered what became of her. It was my other childhood friend, Cathy Bress (now Kissel), who saw Gretchen at a mutual friend’s funeral. Gretchen got up to speak at it, and Cathy thought, “I know her, that’s Gretchen, Laura’s old friend. Laura has been wondering about her for years.” So, Cathy got Gretchen’s phone number and email address and that’s how we connected several years ago. We had so much fun reminiscing at a restaurant in Collinsville. I will never forget that day, or last July for our last time together. She seemed so strong and was in remission then and was feeling so positive as I recall, she made me feel the same. Such an inspiration!
I am so thankful to have met and known Gretchen and all of you. You were all a part of such fun childhood memories. She always made me laugh, and let me win games many times with lots of “do over’s”, as I was such a cry-baby. Such a sweet and gentle soul, this world was so lucky to have her, spreading her happiness and good cheer in whatever she did.
I will never forget my dear childhood friend and all of those happy memories.
We met in Morris Hills around 1962, I believe. We were going to be in Kindergarten in the fall, and our mothers were searching for their little girls to “meet a new friend” before the school year started. I don’t recalled how it happened exactly, but one day my mother walked me down the street to this big two story home, where I met Gretchen, her sister, Melanie, and her Mom, Jean “Mrs. Linden” (to me). I remember meeting her Dad, Bill “Mr. Linden” at another time, as it was during the day, and he was at school, teaching. We colored pictures, we played with Gretchen’s toys, got to know each other in the way that kids do. I remember having so much fun, that I couldn’t wait to go back down the street and see her again. Kindergarten started, but I don’t believe we were in the same class together, there were morning and afternoon classes, and I recall going in the morning, and Gretchen in the afternoon. I know that if we would have been together, we would have been in trouble all of the time, because of our constant talking and giggling. One day Gretchen told me they were moving, but not far away, just down the hill at the big white house above the Morris Hills playground/park. I thought that her first house was really neat, but this house was awesome, and we seemed to do more things there, like slide down the staircase on pillows! I remember being upstairs in her room and listening to records, the one record I really recall (beside the BEATLES) was a song, or perhaps it was the soundtrack from “Peter and the Wolf”. I can still recall that tune. It was the home that I had my first “sleepover”, at the age of six, and being brought home in the middle of the night by Mrs. L, as I was “scared and missed my mom!” We played Monopoly, we played with Play Dough, and Gretchen could always make the coolest things with the stuff. She was so creative with it. She taught me how to stack three different size balls to create a snowman, and all his accessories. I remember the house had a big hill in the back, and we use to go sledding there when it snowed. We would go to the park and swing and go down the slide. We would cross over the little bridge that sometimes had a stream that went under it and we walked up and around on the side of the hill on the trails. We liked to pretend that we were in another country.
It was at that park one day we were playing and were almost kidnapped. We were at the swings and a car pulled up, it was a tan station wagon. A man in a dark raincoat got out and started walking toward us. There was a little bridge that you walked over from the street as I recall, and he was crossing that bridge and called out, “Hey girls, I have some candy, would you like to go for a ride?” I remember grabbing Gretchen’s hand, and running up the hill toward my house on Crown Drive, and yelling, “Run, Gretchen, Run!”, and we were screaming, and it was a steep hill. It had a path with stones for footing, and I looked back to see where he was, and he was running back to his car. I remember the police being called, and they came out and talked to each of us, but he was never found. I just know that we were not allowed to go the park anymore unless we had Melanie or someone older with us.
Finally, another day came, and Gretchen told me they were going to move again, this time further away and we would not go to the same school together any longer. We were sad, but our mothers told us that we could call each other on the phone and we could take turns at spending the night at each other’s house. We were older then, and I wasn’t scared any longer. Actually, we were going to be a little closer together, as my dad was building our home in Lakeview Acres, 53 Will-Vina and we would be moving there soon. (Feb ‘65).
And we did stay in touch, and spending the night at each other’s house about once a month or so. We would play records, play Ouija Board, hold a Séance, talk about the boys that we liked I remember when the Beatles came to town, Gretchen’s Mom and Dad came over to talk to my mom and dad and inviting me to go see them. They were going to be the chaperones. However, I was not allowed to go, “nope, somebody could just snatch you up in that big crowd over there, and we’d never see you again.” I told them many, many years later that that was something I could never forgive them for, and they just said, “Oh well, okay.” Well the Beatles came and went and then broke up, and many years later, Gretchen and I became Jackson Five fans. We decided that she would be “Jermaine” and I would be “Tito”. We were in love with the Jackson Five; I think we even joined the fan club. It was also around that time that Gretchen was really getting into drawing, and she was sooo good at it. My mom and dad even gave the okay to draw on my walls in my room. So Gretchen did Snap, Crackle and Pop above my door, and then she did The Pillsbury Dough Boy on one wall, and a big orange sunflower in the corner. I had the coolest room! I remember she talked about drawing a big giraffe up the wall and going across the ceiling to “bite” the light bulb in the middle of the ceiling. But, we would have needed a ladder and it was too dangerous of an idea. . but she was so creative to think of the ideas she had.
It was my Lakeview Acres house too, that once again; Gretchen and I were almost kidnapped (what was up with that?). We went over to the frontage road to Highway 70, and we would try to get the truckers to toot their horns at us. Some guy pulled up in a white sedan and leaned over to open the passenger side door and said, “Hop in girls, let’s go for a ride!” I grabbed Gretchen’s hand, “Run, Gretchen, Run!” so we ran for home, told my mom and she said, “You girls just stay in the house and play records!” “Forget about bike riding, forget about walking the neighborhood, and just stay in.”
I remember birthday parties at each other’s house, a roller skating party I had one year at the Skate-A-Rama in Fairview Heights/Belleville. I remember braiding Gretchen’s long hair while it was wet to see how cool it would turn out when it was dry. We used to iron mine and then watch it frizz again when I would go outside. We loved to watch “I Dream of Jeannie” and “The Monkeys”. We went to Miners Theatre to the movies sometimes – I’m sure we saw “Help” and “A Hard Day’s Night”. I was invited sometimes to go to “Gaslight Swimming Pool”, and have so much fun. I always felt so grown-up and groovy going there, it was such a treat. I still have in my jewelry box from when I was a kid, the charm bracelet that Gretchen gave me, some gold initial L A S pins, and a silver bracelet that I wore to a Paul McCartney concert, maybe five years ago now, or so. I remember putting it on, and in the middle of the concert I noticed it was gone. I remember sitting there at the concert with tears streaming down my eyes, I was so upset that it was gone. However, I was ever so excited, happy and thankful that it was in my car on the floor in the back seat. It must have flipped off when I took, or put on my seat belt. I have not worn it since, as I need to have it repaired, if it can be.
I remember the home on Knoll Drive (10 was it?), and the orchards that we used to go sledding in. I also remember after a rain, all the little toads that would come out, we used to love to watch them, but I don’t recall if we picked them up or not (ewe). I remember how Melanie and Gretchen shared the back bedroom for awhile, and then when babies Adrienne and Christina came along, the big girls moved downstairs! They even had a bathroom down there! I recall Gretchen drew on those walls too, right? What an artist! We used to play Twister down there . . .. and record, after record. Melanie, I remember your friends, Diane Huber and Jane Giddings (right?) They were always so nice to us; we thought it was so neat to hang out with the big girls sometimes. With me not having any sisters, it was a real treat. But sometimes you big gals didn’t want us little gals around, and we had to go and do our own thing. I loved trying to play the piano you had . . .I still only know the same songs now as I did then, only a few . I remember a dog you all had, “Greta” a Dachshund? I remember being in a car accident with your mom at the entrance off of Vandalia to Orchards shopping center. We were turning in, and your mom yelled “Girls hang on!” and wham – we were hit from behind. I especially remember Gretchen being worried about the baby that wasn’t born yet, and thankfully no one was hurt.
I remember peanut butter on toast in the morning for breakfast – what a yummy treat that was then. I can remember your Dad taught us that one (I do believe) - he’d make that for us. Still love it now, only I’ve switched to Almond Butter.
The years went by, and high school separated us with each of us enjoying or own interests – we would still talk to each other in the halls and see how the other one was doing. I was all about baton twirling and pom-pom girls and we each had our boyfriends. Then graduation came and went, and like a lot of friendships, folks lose tough with each other. I saw Gretchen at our Five Year reunion, and we had a great visit then. Then I moved to Arizona in 1981 and made it back to the reunions, but never saw Gretchen and wondered what became of her. It was my other childhood friend, Cathy Bress (now Kissel), who saw Gretchen at a mutual friend’s funeral. Gretchen got up to speak at it, and Cathy thought, “I know her, that’s Gretchen, Laura’s old friend. Laura has been wondering about her for years.” So, Cathy got Gretchen’s phone number and email address and that’s how we connected several years ago. We had so much fun reminiscing at a restaurant in Collinsville. I will never forget that day, or last July for our last time together. She seemed so strong and was in remission then and was feeling so positive as I recall, she made me feel the same. Such an inspiration!
I am so thankful to have met and known Gretchen and all of you. You were all a part of such fun childhood memories. She always made me laugh, and let me win games many times with lots of “do over’s”, as I was such a cry-baby. Such a sweet and gentle soul, this world was so lucky to have her, spreading her happiness and good cheer in whatever she did.
I will never forget my dear childhood friend and all of those happy memories.
It is with a tears in my eyes that I type that Gretchen left us mid morning on Wednesday January 8th, 2014.
- Linda Fergusonposted toGretchen LindenYesterday
She's at peace now. May the wings of angels carry her smoothly to her next glorious adventure.
Like ·- Robert White Sad to hear of her loss.
- Robert White Sad to hear of her loss.
- Steve O'Rourkeposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
We will always cherish the love and care you gave our dear Abby umpteen years ago. Blessings to you as you move into the Light, free of the pain you suffered with so graciously. Your smiles will endur - Mary Rummerfieldposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
I miss you G. You were so brave and amazing. I know you are pain free and at peace now and God has his arms around you. Love you Gretchen.
· Cari Calkins likes this. - Oh, Gretchen! You are loved and missed. Thank you for the love and light you brought to our lives. You gave so much love to our Abby, and by extension, our family, when you cared for her pre-preschool. Wherever love is, there is Gretchen. Prayers and love go out to Leah, Adrienne, Maria, and your whole family.
- Stacy Stonerposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
Soar our Gretchen angel with the other angels that have left this earth too soon...may you be pain and cancer free where you are now. You fought an amazing, courageous, inspiring battle where you touched so many lives and we are shedding a tear or two for you tonight. I am privileged for knowing you and my life is better because of you. You will be missed at MHS but your legacy will live on with Adrienne and Leah.
Scott Burbank Yes she was an amazing women I will miss her very much but one she is freeDenise Wilson Alexander Yes such a good harted person. - Tiigris Morganposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
- I'm really going to miss you and your beautiful smile. I'm never going to forget you and your wonderful display of faith. I love you. My prays go out to the family during your time of bereavement
- Dianne Huber Griffith Schubert say hey to Buster
- Jessie Leeposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
- I will miss you "aunt" gretchen. Love you. You fought so hard and with the utmost bravery and courage. You were always so upbeat even in the worst of situations. Now you are pain free. Rest in peace with the angels.
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- Linda Lochmann Cristelposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 near Hamel, IL via mobile
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- My dear sweet Gretchen....you are home.
I know you are surrounded by angels.
I will never forget you. I will always remember your sweet voice filled with kindness. I'll remember that zest for life and all things joyful you had. I'll never forget your knowledge of eating all things healthy and how you guided me with all sorts of helpful information.
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Sheri Foster Broyles and 6 others like thisSheri Foster Broyles That was beautiful LindaKaren Perry Wyatt Very nice Linda R. I.P. Gretchen (such a beautiful lady)- Anna Gibbsposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 near Castle Point, MO
- Anna Gibbsposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 near Castle Point, MO
- For our dear, sweet Gretchen,
You were our angel right here. You are well loved & you will be so missed. I love you..always.
RIP sweet Lady
Scott Burbank likes this.- Debi Haughposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- So sorry to hear of your passing.....rip Gretchen....Im sure the angels were rejoicing for a child has gone home, prayers hugs for your family,,,,you were amazing
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- Donna Chappell Coxposted toGretchen LindenJanuar
- Rest in Peace. You fought the hard fight and now is your time to rest. I'm honored to have known you. You will be missed by your family and your Magellan family.
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- Aeron Linden Swafford shared a video.January 8
- Dear Gretchen, thanks for the jellyfish hat!
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- Melanie Linden Jasper I was with her when she received that from the Fed Ex guy. When she opened the package, she said "isn't life interesting?" "One day you' re just sitting around, and someone mails you a jellyfish hat!" She was such a hoot sometimes!
January 8 at 10:40pm via mobile · Unlike · 3 - Ashley Hoffmann Reno That's aunt G to a T. She was always able to make everybody smile:)
Yesterday at 5:22am · Like · 1 - Karen Rogier Mel, Thanks for posting her comment. It means a lot to me.
15 hours ago · Like - Moon Leadyposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
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- Dearest GG ~ I know you are free now. No more pain...only joy now. Those of us left behind will miss your sweet smile and laughter, but we know we will see you again and your spirit will stay with us always.
Your energy is with me in my home even...in the items you gave us when we moved. All I need do is look at that cute purple chest of drawers and I feel you there.
You told me once that "Everybody has their gifts....everybody"...and you were right.
Your gifts were joy and light and laughter. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us. You will always be here in our hearts. Love never ends.
Rest now, dear lady. Be at peace.
Linda Lochmann Cristel and 3 others like this.- Scott Burbank So nice Moon well said !
- Tricia Pierce Andrewsposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- Scott Burbank So nice Moon well said !
- My beautiful Gretchen, I will miss you terribly. I will miss your smile, your spirit, and your strong-will. You braved a hard fight my girl. Your ability to smile and make me smile when you were having so much pain never failed to amaze me. I will miss you so much. My prayers to your loving family. — feeling sad you are gone.
- Nick Haganposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- You always made me smile every day I passed by your cube. Now you are smiling with the angels. RIP dear friend.
Like · Mark Jasper shared a link.January 8 - http://youtu.be/xSOokHF8fig
Gretchen
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- Leslie Soskin Wareheim · Friends with Gretchen LindenWonderful, unique, amazing you, Gretchen. Your light has moved on, but your love remains with us, and our love goes with you. To your beloved family, all our thoughts and prayers. Leah, she's with you. Not the way you want her to be, but there nonetheless. She loves you so much, and she's so very proud. You were her favorite gift in this life!
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- Karen Gray · 8 mutual friendsMark - That was beautiful - thank you.
January 8 at 7:34pm · Like - Deb Apenbrinck Okilee · Friends with Gretchen LindenThanks so much for posting these beautiful pictures of Gretchen. Our dear friend will be missed beyond words. My heart goes out to her family and the many that loved and will miss her dearly.
January 8 at 8:16pm · Like - Mary Rummerfield · Friends with Gretchen Lindenshe was always smiling and now she's smiling down on us.
Yesterday at 12:36am · Like - Mary Bozza Wiseposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
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- Be at peace, lovely lady. I am blessed and a better person to have known you and will keep your smile in my heart. My love and prayers to your whole family. We will all miss you.
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Aeron Linden Swaffordposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 - I love you.
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Mika Sinerväposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 near Kannelmäki, Finland via mobile - "Smiles were left behind where she had been much like waves follow a boat on the ocean."
We consider ourselves profoundly blessed to have known Gtretchen for whatever little time
With much love,
Mika, Wanpen and Sofia
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- You will be missed, but I'm glad you hurt no more.
You, Robert White and 4 others like this.- Joy Duggan Helms I love this. Its beautiful.
January 8 at 9:22pm via mobile · Like - Marie Clarkposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- Joy Duggan Helms I love this. Its beautiful.
- You will so missed. I know you are inpeace and out of pain, May your family find comfort in all the wonderful memories of you.
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Joy Duggan Helms likes this.- Mark Jasperposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 near Edwardsville, IL via mobile
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Pam Wassink Maurerposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile - Gretchen Linden, you watched my two wonderful daughters almost 17 years ago. Thank you for sharing your love with them. May your family find peace in knowing their is no pain in heaven. Thanks be to God.
- Nicole Wallish Martensposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
- You were an inspiration to many people and will always be so. You were so brave and kept your spirits up even on your worst days. Your light will shine in all of those you've touched, may you be at peace now with God's love. We will miss you terribly but your spirit will live on. I pray now for your family may they find comfort in the memories they shared with you. Rest in peace sweet angel.
Linda Lochmann Cristel and 2 others like this. - Robert DuBoisposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
- Gretchen Linden, you are an amazing spirit. You will be missed on earth, but we a happy you are now at peace with Christ. God bless you and your family.
- Joy Duggan Helms Robert, You have spoken so often for Gretchen with such grace. Thank you for the care you've given her.
- Dana Hatcher-Baumanposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- My sweet GG. You loved my 'thoughts of the day' and you responded some time ago to let me know your all time favorite. THIS is so you but so needed right now with all of your loved ones.
Linda Lochmann Cristel and Tricia Pierce Andrews like this. - Tricia Pierce Andrews Sounds just like her.
- Dana Hatcher-Baumanposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8 via mobile
- My sweet sweet GG. I'm going to miss you in so many ways. Heaven is gaining an Angel. May you fly with all the beautiful Angels as you have always been. RIP my beloved friend.
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- Dana Hatcher-Bauman A light went out this morning. I'll look for a new version of your light soon. I'll miss you so.
- Kimberly Gallagherposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 8
- Thinking about you and praying for you. Miss u!
- Tracy Schutte Bryantposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 3
- Thinking of you...as I come upon my 3rd year of clean eating, I think of you often. I remember the day you welcomed me into your cube, told me your story, showed me your pictures and then did a circle and said That's what it's done for me. I miss seeing you...You embodied strength, love, and support just when I needed it most. Thank you G - love ya!
Robert White, Linda Lochmann Cristel and 7 others like this - Tracy Schutte Bryant I will forever miss you!
- Jon Brownposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 2 via mobile
Miss you. Just know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers.
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Wishing you a peaceful New Year, Gretchen. Thinking of you every day!
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Dearest Gretchen - you are in my thoughts.
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I love you more, Aunt Gretchen.
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Happy New Year Gretchen! You are an inspiration to many and you have a wonderful spirit. I wish you a very happy and peaceful new year filled with lots of love. xoxo
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Happy 2014 Miss G, thinking and praying for you all. Hugs ..
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- Laura Elyposted toGretchen LindenJanuary 1 near Florissant, MO via mobile
Hello my fabulous friend! It is quiet at my house and you are on my mind...as always. Hoping you know I am sending warm and comfy hugs to you tonight and always! Peace and Love!
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She's at peace now. May the wings of angels carry her smoothly to her next glorious adventure.
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Steve O'Rourke wrote on Gretchen Linden's timeline. - January 8 at 10:15pm
We will always cherish the love and care you gave our dear Abby umpteen years ago. Blessings to you as you move into the Light, free of the pain you suffered with so graciously. Your smiles will endure!
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I miss you G. You were so brave and amazing. I know you are pain free and at peace now and God has his arms around you. Love you Gretchen.
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- Gretchen LindenDecember 26, 2013 via iOS
Hi everyone I'm feeling pretty good today I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas !!! I love you!
You, Melanie Linden Jasper, Sheri Foster Broyles, Kirsten Wee and 58 others like this.- Julie K Love that smile! Merry (belated) Christmas to you and the family over there.
December 28, 2013 at 4:56pm via mobile · Like - Cindy Hendrickson Glad you are feeling good and you look beautiful. Love and miss you.
December 30, 2013 at 4:45am · Like - Dan Rose Love you G!!! Miss you.
December 31, 2013 at 9:10am via mobile · Like - Tiigris Morgan Love you Gretchen Linden
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- Julie K Love that smile! Merry (belated) Christmas to you and the family over there.
Gretchen LindenDecember 17
WOOOOHOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel FANTASTIC today! It's because of all of you and all your loving prayers! Praise God! - Melanie Linden Jasper, Sheri Foster Broyles, Terry Parent Almeida and 62 others like this.Linda Duckett Taylor Thankful! We keep praying!
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- Cathy Proctor Gieselman more prayers for you!!
December 17 at 10:46am · Like · 1 - Rhonda R Syler will keep praying
December 17 at 11:25am · Like · 1 - Joyce Lococo Kissell Yes!!!! Praise God!!!
December 17 at 11:51am via mobile · Like · 1 - Nancy Cozart So glad you are having a good day. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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- Karen Rogier That makes my day!
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- Louie J. Smith Thanks be to the Lord. So glad you're feeling better.
December 17 at 12:26pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Stacy Stoner That is wonderful , Gretchen! Merry Christmas to you and Leah (a little early)
December 17 at 12:52pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Laura Ely That is a BIG WOOHOO! Way to go! Love you my friend!
December 17 at 3:34pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Debi Haugh Thank you Jesus
December 17 at 3:57pm · Like · 1 - Karen Morrow Im so glad to hear this.
December 17 at 6:14pm · Like · 2 - Deb Apenbrinck Okilee This is the best news I've heard all day:)
December 17 at 6:50pm · Like · 1 - Leslie Soskin Wareheim This makes all of us very happy, Gretchen!
December 17 at 7:46pm · Like · 1 - Dana Hatcher-Bauman Praise GOD!!
December 17 at 8:39pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Joy Duggan Helms I'm watching Eat Pray Love for about the dozenth time and basking in your news. Sunshine and lollypops and puppies and rainbows take on a whole new meaning when you feel like you do today. Sweet dreams tonite.
December 17 at 9:40pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Willie Laney Great news Gretchen!!!
December 18 at 8:26am via mobile · Like · 1 - Donna Chappell Cox Great! Hope you have many more fantastic days.
December 18 at 8:06pm · Like · 1 - Brett Miller We are so thankful that you better. We are all here for you. Call upon us if you need anything.
22 hours ago · Like · 1 - Tricia Pierce Andrews So happy you are having such a wonderful day. Sending hugs and healing prayers.
21 hours ago · Like · 1 - Cameron Day-Elliot Wonder news, dear Gretchen! Will keep you in our thoughts and praying for your continued recovery! Miss you SO much!
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Gretchen LindenDecember 16 via iOS
Three perfectly poached eggs and a hunk of ham. A great breakfast that I made! I hope some of this protein stays down!
Melanie Linden Jasper, Julie K, Aeron Linden Swafford and 16 others like this.
Three perfectly poached eggs and a hunk of ham. A great breakfast that I made! I hope some of this protein stays down!
Melanie Linden Jasper, Julie K, Aeron Linden Swafford and 16 others like this.
- Gretchen Linden I was toouch food. All came up.
December 16 at 9:18am · Like - Gretchen Linden (Too much)
December 16 at 9:19am · Like - Kelly Page Ugh!
December 16 at 10:21am via mobile · Like - Ginny Endejan The good news is you had the gumption and energy to make that good breakfast. But maybe your appetite was too much for your tummy...
December 16 at 11:11am via mobile · Like · 1 - Elizabeth Cindy Stewart Lee So sorry your having trouble keeping it down. Hopefully you'll find something that will be good for you that will stay down.
December 16 at 12:31pm · Like - Debbie West Floyd So sorry Gretchen. Is there anything you can hold down?
December 16 at 3:08pm · Like - Gretchen Linden Not really Debbie not even water in fact it's becoming a problem again because even the water needed to swallow a medicine very often comes back up. My nurse called and she will figure out something for me and tomorrow I have a nurse coming to the house. One of the things she will do is hang an IV fluid bag for me
December 16 at 3:33pm · Like - Jane Wright Bush I'm sorry you're so sick! Praying you'll feel better soon.
December 16 at 4:24pm via mobile · Like - Debbie West Floyd Try some jelly belly's.
December 16 at 6:41pm · Like - Gretchen Linden EW!!! I hate jelly bellies in even the best of times. But thank you !
December 16 at 8:14pm · Like - Joy Duggan Helms I guess I would practice the art of savoring the flavor. At least ya got the good taste memory.
December 16 at 8:39pm via mob
Gretchen Linden shared David Lavery's story.December 15
My Dad is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Dad is awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
- Melanie Linden Jasper, Linda Lochmann Cristel and Joy Duggan Helms like this.
- Sandra Hochenedel your daddy has always loved you. I remember that..........
December 15 at 4:13pm ·
Gretchen LindenDecember 15 via iOS · Edited
Confusing, but I love it!!!!! I have had the best day ever in a long, long time Good energy, good spirit, good appetite--- it's it's just unbelievable!!!!!! I have to credit a wonderful visit last night from my angelic friend Joy.
Confusing, but I love it!!!!! I have had the best day ever in a long, long time Good energy, good spirit, good appetite--- it's it's just unbelievable!!!!!! I have to credit a wonderful visit last night from my angelic friend Joy.
- You, Melanie Linden Jasper, Terry Parent Almeida, Mia Sinervä and 35 others like this.
- Gretchen Linden (This pic was at the hospital. I came back home Friday)
December 15 at 3:18am · Like · 3 - Mika Sinervä That's good to hear Gretchen! ️ from us
December 15 at 3:23am via mobile · Like · 1 - Brenda Neumann So glad you are home Gretch. Hope you continue to have a great weekend!!! Love you!!
December 15 at 6:46am · Like - Stacy Stoner I am so glad you are home and had a great day! Sending warm, healing and loving thoughts your way!
December 15 at 6:52am via mobile · Like · 1 - Susan Carlson So glad to hear you are back home!!!
December 15 at 6:54am via mobile · Like - Dan Rose Glad you're home... ♡♡♡ sending those positive vibes your way.
December 15 at 7:12am via mobile · Like · 1 - Peggy Sheeren Burgess Best day ever...may it be the start of many more.
December 15 at 7:35am via mobile · Like · 1 - aura Ely That is the very best news! I'm thrilled you had such a great day! Everybody can use a little angel, right?
December 15 at 7:56am via mobile · Like · 1 - Linda Lochmann Cristel Great news Gretchen! And so glad you're home sweet home! Ps...I believe in angels. Joy must be yours!
December 15 at 8:09am via mobile · Like · 1 - Joy Duggan Helms God bless you, girl. I hope the "happy" gods camp with you for a long time.
December 15 at 8:15am via mobile · Like - Tricia Pierce Andrews So glad that you are having better days. Praying for you.
December 15 at 8:15am · Like - Yvonne Hays wonderful Gretchen
December 15 at 8:32am · Like - Carol French McFall Home Sweet Home...Glad to hear this wonderful new, Gretchen.
December 15 at 8:37am · Like - Kelly Page Hi Gretchen! It must feel so good to be home. So happy you had such a good day!
December 15 at 8:52am via mobile · Like - Scott Burbank That's great to hear very happy you are home
December 15 at 9:00am via mobile · Like - Ginny Endejan So happy to hear you are home and back to your normal self. That means so much!
December 15 at 9:20am via mobile · Like - June Fugate Gretchen, you are the angel - your strength is our magnet. Love you and so glad you are home to sit and enjoy the snow..
December 15 at 10:25am · Like - Karen Rogier I'm glad to hear it.
December 15 at 11:12am · Like - Joy Duggan Helms I ditto June..you are our inspiration, Gretchen.
December 15 at 11:23am via mobile · Like - Lisa McAdoo Schlepp Luv the pic! Glad to hear you're home, don't get much rest in the hospital! Your angel is most def working!
December 15 at 11:39am via mobile · Like - Rhonda R Syler hi Gretchen glad you are home stay warm thinking of you always
December 15 at 11:58am · Like - Deb Apenbrinck Okilee Super duper double like:) Love you.
December 15 at 12:28pm · Like - Louie J. Smith Yay for you G. Hope the good days keep on coming.
December 15 at 12:37pm via mobile · Like - Cari Calkins So glad you are feeling a little better, beautiful! You are my inspiration for so many things. Keep strong and chugging along!
December 15 at 3:59pm · Like · 1 - Ashley Hoffmann Reno There's the Aunt GG I i know and love. I knew you were in there somewhere:) Keep smiling I LOVE YOU!!!
December 15 at 5:36pm · Like - Sherry Parker Weible Gretchen happy you are feeling better! I think of you often ...
December 15 at 8:11pm via mobile · Like - Brett Miller I hope your day is filled with happiness and wonderful thoughts.
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Gretchen LindenDecember 12 via iOS
Now THIS is eating!!!!!!!
Now THIS is eating!!!!!!!
- Kirsten Wee, Aeron Linden Swafford, Linda Lochmann Cristel and 18 others like this.
- Laura Ely Beautiful! Hope you can enjoy this one, Gretchen!
December 12 at 8:02am via mobile · Like - Gretchen Linden Nope spoke too soon Came back up on bite. 4.
December 12 at 8:09am · Like - Linda Lochmann Cristel Gretchen maybe a little mashed potatoes? Or vanilla ice cream? Praying for you Sweetie. Hoping there's something you can keep down.
December 12 at 9:35am via mobile · Like - Peggy Sheeren Burgess Please let us know when you find the magic food that settles your stomach and we will send you an unlimited supply! Keep your spirits up...you are amazing!
December 12 at 4:35pm via mobile · Like · 1 - Donna Chappell Cox Hang in there......hopefully they find something that tastes good and can be kept down.
December 12 at 7:16pm · Like - ouie J. Smith Hoping and praying that you can find a food that will stay around for awhile
December 13 at 1:36p
Here's the fun side of hospitalization. All the sherbet or Italiian ice you could want !! At one a m.
You, Julie K, Keith Winkler and 22 others like this.- Gretchen Linden GMM!
December 12 at 5:05am · Like - Dan Rose Good morning love! ! Always thinking about you... we all really miss you here in the office.
December 12 at 6:04am via mobile · Like - Brenda Neumann Blue Bunny.... that's the good stuff!! I sure hope you start feeling better Gretch. We love you!!
December 12 at 7:15am · Like - Dana Hatcher-Bauman
December 12 at 8:31am via mobile · Like - Yvonne Hays Good morning Gretchen
December 12 at 8:37am · Like - Robert DuBois You sound like you are feeling better.. Go Gretchen!
December 12 at 1:59pm via mobile · Like
Thanksgiving 2011 not 2010
I, Mark, came across this one of Gretchen while looking at some of her pics on FB.
I, Mark, came across this one of Gretchen while looking at some of her pics on FB.
Linda Ferguson shared a link.about an hour ago
I thought of you this morning. May this song lift your spirits :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1rfHRrbuz0
Tessanne Chin: "Bridge Over Troubled Water" - The Voice Highlight
Tessanne Chin electrifies the house with her version of Simon and Garfunkel's "Bridge Over Troubled Water." Subscribe to The Voice: http://full.sc/HbIXEY Mon...
I thought of you this morning. May this song lift your spirits :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1rfHRrbuz0
Tessanne Chin: "Bridge Over Troubled Water" - The Voice Highlight
Tessanne Chin electrifies the house with her version of Simon and Garfunkel's "Bridge Over Troubled Water." Subscribe to The Voice: http://full.sc/HbIXEY Mon...
My dailies. At the hospital because I could not swallow keep any of these down. They took an ultrasuond guided paracentesis and removed 1600 cc"s of fluids from my abdomen. About 1.5 liter. Can you imagine being opened up to put IN that amout????!!!!!!!! Not pleasant to carry around. Glad I don't have too anymore.
Mark Jasper Well no wonder you don't have an appetite with all that snacking your doing in between meals.
3 hours ago · Like- Linda Lochmann Cristel Glad you don't have that to carry around anymore too Gretchen. Hope you feel much better now.
2 hours ago via mobile · Like
this one is better. Happy.food.
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- Deb Apenbrinck Okilee Hi Ms. G! Miss you!
14 hours ago · Like - Karen Rogier yum
13 hours ago · Like - Jayshell Garcia Are you playing with your food young lady??
13 hours ago via mobile · Like - Anna Gibbs Yay!!!! Food!!!!
13 hours ago via mobile · Like - Jon Brown Stop mixing your food, you're messing with my OCD.
13 hours ago via mobile · Like - Chris Linden Now that's more like the Gretchen I know!
13 hours ago via mobile · Like · 1 - Dana Hatcher-Bauman GG! I am sure glad a smile was found near you. Love you!!
13 hours ago via mobile · Like - Charlene Zukosky McGinthy Love your spirit Gretchen! Hang in there!!
12 hours ago · Like - Melanie Linden Jasper You are such a goober! Too cute! Love you, Sis!
10 hours ago via mobile · Like - Linda Lochmann Cristel Reminds me of Mr Tomato you used to dress up! Lol!
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In hospital again Came be ambulance Sunday night. This is my dinner AFTER I ate. Not much appetite , no si
Tricia Pierce Andrews I'm sorry. Sending healing hugs & prayers.
11 hours ago · Like- Cari Calkins so sorry. I thought your initial picture of the happy food meant that you were feeling better. For what it's worth, it doesn't look all that appetizing to me...
10 hours ago · Like - Janice Otto You need to stop this. Is there a doctor you are trying to hook up with ???? Love ya
10 hours ago via mobile · Like - Gretchen Linden Ooooooohhh Jan. you should've seen the student doc in the ER unit !!!!!! Lets just say I ain't dead yet! (). What a dill!!! His mom must be so proud.
4 hours ago · Like · 2 - Joyce Lococo Kissell Oh G .... So glad to see you still have that spunk in you!!!! I miss your adorable comments like that.... Next time say something to embarrass that student doc....like "seeing you makes me feel better already". Let em' know you still have the spunk .... We all love you and are praying for you.
3 hours ago via mobile · Like
Look who shows up for Thanksgiving.
Hi Everyone,
For those who don't know me I am Gretchen's brother (in law). My wife will tell you things seem to just come to me. The link below is just one of many examples.
http://universityprimetime.com/school/unh/article/nurse-discusses-5-regrets-people-tell-her-before-they-die
This fall Melanie and I were in an amazing chapel.
http://www.fspa.org/prayer/maryofangelschapel/index.html
Please take a moment and request a prayer for Gretchen and family.
Thank You,
Mark
For those who don't know me I am Gretchen's brother (in law). My wife will tell you things seem to just come to me. The link below is just one of many examples.
http://universityprimetime.com/school/unh/article/nurse-discusses-5-regrets-people-tell-her-before-they-die
This fall Melanie and I were in an amazing chapel.
http://www.fspa.org/prayer/maryofangelschapel/index.html
Please take a moment and request a prayer for Gretchen and family.
Thank You,
Mark
ack I'm the hospital
This is the view up the I V pole They gave me two units of blood lots of fluids and other medicines and my chemotherapy
Hi have been extremely weak and fatigued So maybe someone else's blood will work better LOL
This is the view up the I V pole They gave me two units of blood lots of fluids and other medicines and my chemotherapy
Hi have been extremely weak and fatigued So maybe someone else's blood will work better LOL
Moon Leady Dislike!!!!
Sending you calm and healing energies
November 22 at 11:50am via mobile · Like
Nancy Cozart Hi Gretchen...so sad that you are back in hospital.. best wishes for speedy recovery!
November 22 at 12:04pm · Like
Sheri Foster Broyles So sorry Gretchen : ( I was thinking about you this morning and was praying for you...now I know why.
November 22 at 12:19pm · Like · 1
Linda Lochmann Cristel Gretchen, I'm sorry you are back in the hospital but after getting all your meds and "cocktails" I'm praying it restores your energy and makes you feel like tapping your toes to a snappy tune. Always are you in my thoughts and prayers sweet Gretchen.
November 22 at 12:37pm via mobile · Like · 1
Cathy Proctor Gieselman Praying for energy and happy thoughts.
November 22 at 1:15pm via mobile · Like
Jon Brown You know the things you do just to see a male nurse... seriously though I just thought about you this morning. I was at the library, yes I know how to read, but I was there for the pop up ones, you know with big pictures and fuzzy textures. And I noticed a form next to the large print section. Don't ask why I was hanging around that side of the library, they're all trouble makers! This form are for those who don't get out and abut as much as they would like to. Sure I could have came out and said they deliver, but how funny would that have been? And I would have never told you about the gangs out here at Lake STL. One click rolls in a retirement van and goes by the name, the green highlighters. Do not ask them if they have seen Dewey. They had the fuzz doing an APB on something they thought was a person! Then you have the fiction friction crew, they are more laid back despite their name. They are the ones who has the internet computers on lock down. No seriously they can't type and locked every single one of them. Let me know if you want me to get you some books. It'll give me a reason to swing by and give you a hug. Miss u!
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Rhonda R Syler praying for you HUGS coming your way
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Debbie West Floyd Praying sweet Gretchen. I too think of you often.
November 22 at 1:25pm · Like
Stacy Stoner I am sorry to hear you are in the hospital...take cars of yourself and know that everyone is pulling for you and loves you!
November 22 at 1:27pm via mobile · Like
Laurie Kuck Sending Hugs and Prayers your way
November 22 at 1:42pm · Like
Joyce Lococo Kissell Praying for you
November 22 at 1:48pm via mobile · Like
Sandra Hochenedel touching base with mother Jean Linden with loving thoughts...
November 22 at 1:49pm · Like
Ginny Endejan Hang in there Gretchen. Its cold outside... at least I am sure it's nice and warm in the hospital. Get all those good fluids in you and get outta there for the big family feast day. My family will say a special prayer for you on that day. I pray for you EVERY day.
November 22 at 2:05pm · Like
Janice Otto Feel better. Big hug
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Jane Wright Bush Praying you feel better soon and hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!
November 22 at 2:55pm via mobile · Like
Maria Rodgers O'Rourke Sending love and prayers your way!
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Mika Sinervä Hugs and strength!!
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Angela Hare Adams ((Hugs))
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Mary Bozza Wise You hang in there, lady. Hugs to you and your family.
November 22 at 3:36pm · Like
Keith Winkler Love you Gretch!
November 22 at 3:37pm · Like
Robert DuBois Sending you all my best.
November 22 at 4:01pm via mobile · Like
Micki 'Johann' VanDyke You 're in my thoughts and prayers Gretchen ..
November 22 at 4:30pm via mobile · Like
Janie Kaiser You are in my prayers, Gretchen!
November 22 at 4:32pm · Like
Jeannette Burkett Deppe Ah, a room with a view. Feel better!!!!!
November 22 at 5:10pm · Like
Julie K Another occasion for a dislike button. I hope you get out soon so you can spend some this holiday with the family.
November 22 at 5:22pm via mobile · Like
Julie K Or maybe you can see how many people fit in a hospital room for thanksgiving.
November 22 at 5:23pm via mobile · Like
Scott Burbank Keeping you in my prayers
November 22 at 5:29pm via mobile · Like
Yvonne Hays Gretchen, I hope you will be feeling better soon.
November 22 at 6:03pm · Like
Peggy Sheeren Burgess What? Not ok! Hoping you are back home quickly and that new blood gives you a big boost.
November 22 at 6:39pm via mobile · Like
Donna Chappell Cox Sending you all my best. You keep such a positive outlook.
November 22 at 7:05pm · Like
Louie J. Smith Hope you get to feeling better G.
November 22 at 8:14pm via mobile · Like
Robin Winslow Burbank Stay strong! Prayers & love to you Gretchen! xoxo
November 22 at 11:52pm via mobile · Like
Dan Rose We're all behind you praying for you. We sure miss you. Let us k now if you would like visitors or if you need anything. ♡♡♡
November 23 at 4:43am via mobile · Like
Mary Rummerfield Guess you should be recharged with all that they pumped in you there. Hope it makes you feel better and stronger. Miss you lots!I'm praying for you and thinking about you.
November 23 at 8:43am · Like
Peck Nancy My thoughts and prayers are with you!
November 23 at 11:33am · Like
Linda Ferguson All the best getting through this. Keep up your sense of humor- It's a gift to yourself and all the people around you. Sending loads of hugs.
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Kelly Page Hi Gretchen! I'm viewing this post for the first time; so sorry to see you back in the hospital. I hope you will be feeling better and can enjoy some mashed taters on turkey day… you remain in my thoughts & prayers. Hugs!
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I received this breathtaking floral arrangement today from "my Magellan family"!!!! What a wonderful group of folks; these really make me smile! Thank you, everyone!!!
You know how in my last post I said the tree was dripping gold? Well, about an hour later, my dear and unbelievable boss Robert came to visit. They'd held another bake sale for me. He brought a staggeringly large check from the sale and other fundraising they are doing. I can't see again as I type this! Tears of such deep gratitude and appreciation. I'd had to have Robert read some of the names and notes to me that folks wrote because I couldn't stop sobbing. It's a good thing he knows how I am and is used to it when I get like this! What a wonderful man he is, to head up all the efforts like this at work. He knows that the workplace is not "just" work and he values the relationships among coworkers so highly. And of course then , in turn, that is SOOooo good for business. Happy people who feel valued and respected are hard and dedicated workers! What's even better is that these values are contagious and ripple out in all directions inspiring folks not to be shy about helping or about asking for help. I have notes and personal checks from folks I have not even met yet. That's the kind of caring, at all levels, that is such a huge part of the company I'm so blessed to be a part of. A week from today will be my 15th anniversary there and ALL of it has been the best thing ever, in countless ways!! I love you guys!!!!! SO MUCH!
There is GOLD dripping from the tree outside my kitchen window!
WOW!!! I am in love....ordered groceries from Schnucks and they were just delivered. I'd never used this service before. It is fantastic, especially since I needed several heavy things like canned goods, milk, meats. The young guy that brought them must be a football player because he brought the entire order up the stairs in one trip! Even though I like driving the scooters in the store (on the rare day I'm well enough to go out) I suspect I will do this kind of shopping at least once a month. NOW all I need to hope for is AN APPETITE !!!
Driving for the first time in ages today!! And in such perfect weather! It was so wonderful to be out in the world for a little while.
Mel and I were both just in this chapel in LaCrosse, Wi. We both said prayers. Explore the site and leave a request for prayers.
http://www.fspa.org/prayer/maryofangelschapel/index.html
http://www.fspa.org/prayer/maryofangelschapel/index.html
Some of the many faces of Gretchen
Gretchen LindenOctober 20 via mobile
Wow .......after about a week of eating nothing besides cottage cheese, saltines or fried egg sandwiches (because everything grosses me out so much), I just ate a hamburger patty and green beans that Leah made for me. With A1 for the meat. And I feel like its the best thing I've ever eaten.
Wow .......after about a week of eating nothing besides cottage cheese, saltines or fried egg sandwiches (because everything grosses me out so much), I just ate a hamburger patty and green beans that Leah made for me. With A1 for the meat. And I feel like its the best thing I've ever eaten.
It’s raining right now. Gentle thunderstorms. And it occurred to me that that’s one of the things I will miss. Made me wonder, actually, if there will be gentle thunderstorms where I’m going. I hope so.
I haven’t posted in quite a while because I have not had a computer on which to write. Thanks to my incredibly generous and loving father, I now have one. Well, crap, now my eyes are too full of tears to see what I’m typing, because I’m thinking of how I’ll miss my father.
I’m not going to go down that path here right now. I’d ruin the new laptop if it filled up with tears.
Instead, I will fill in those who have not heard the latest. A week ago, I went into the hospital because of lower back and pelvic pain. It felt like the pain of a mild menstrual period for about a week before it escalated into really rough pain throughout the course of the day and evening last Thursday (Sep 12). My doctor told me to go straight to admitting, not the ER, and that was cool because I got into a room very quickly. They drew a bunch of blood and took a urine sample, hooked me up to an IV and gave me painkillers. The doctor especially wanted to rule out a bowel perforation because that’s one thing, although rare, that the trial med I’ve been on can cause. They were also looking to see if there was perhaps a kidney infection or stone, among other things. The blood and urine did not indicate any of those and they did a CT with contrast the next morning. It told us that the cancer had returned, and had metastasized. There was “omental nodularity” in the pelvic area and there were enlarged lymph nodes in the chest and on the outer membrane (pleura) of both lungs.
The doctor herself was shocked that the cancer came back already, and so strong too. It had only been 9 weeks since my final chemo and the last CT (on July 9), which looked fine and showed no evidence of disease. Two months of rejoicing that I was okay, after 5 months of chemo. A really lousy ROI, I keep saying. My boss says he doesn’t agree with that, though, because I may not have been here at all if not for that chemo.
So now she wants to start me on a new and different chemo regimen. I don’t know yet which drugs they’ll use or if there may also be radiation involved this time. I am NOT looking forward to it, but both Leah and I feel the right thing to do is to at least start it, and when (…if?….no, WHEN….) I start feeling too sick and too weak, I will just stop it all. I don’t want to be feeling like that with my last months or weeks or whatever. It’s incurable. And when I asked her about it coming back another time (“If we get to the point where we feel like we kicked it — again — will it come back AGAIN?”), she said “Yes, this disease will take your life.”
Hard to know what to write here. I guess that’s enough for now.
Love you all so much –
g
I haven’t posted in quite a while because I have not had a computer on which to write. Thanks to my incredibly generous and loving father, I now have one. Well, crap, now my eyes are too full of tears to see what I’m typing, because I’m thinking of how I’ll miss my father.
I’m not going to go down that path here right now. I’d ruin the new laptop if it filled up with tears.
Instead, I will fill in those who have not heard the latest. A week ago, I went into the hospital because of lower back and pelvic pain. It felt like the pain of a mild menstrual period for about a week before it escalated into really rough pain throughout the course of the day and evening last Thursday (Sep 12). My doctor told me to go straight to admitting, not the ER, and that was cool because I got into a room very quickly. They drew a bunch of blood and took a urine sample, hooked me up to an IV and gave me painkillers. The doctor especially wanted to rule out a bowel perforation because that’s one thing, although rare, that the trial med I’ve been on can cause. They were also looking to see if there was perhaps a kidney infection or stone, among other things. The blood and urine did not indicate any of those and they did a CT with contrast the next morning. It told us that the cancer had returned, and had metastasized. There was “omental nodularity” in the pelvic area and there were enlarged lymph nodes in the chest and on the outer membrane (pleura) of both lungs.
The doctor herself was shocked that the cancer came back already, and so strong too. It had only been 9 weeks since my final chemo and the last CT (on July 9), which looked fine and showed no evidence of disease. Two months of rejoicing that I was okay, after 5 months of chemo. A really lousy ROI, I keep saying. My boss says he doesn’t agree with that, though, because I may not have been here at all if not for that chemo.
So now she wants to start me on a new and different chemo regimen. I don’t know yet which drugs they’ll use or if there may also be radiation involved this time. I am NOT looking forward to it, but both Leah and I feel the right thing to do is to at least start it, and when (…if?….no, WHEN….) I start feeling too sick and too weak, I will just stop it all. I don’t want to be feeling like that with my last months or weeks or whatever. It’s incurable. And when I asked her about it coming back another time (“If we get to the point where we feel like we kicked it — again — will it come back AGAIN?”), she said “Yes, this disease will take your life.”
Hard to know what to write here. I guess that’s enough for now.
Love you all so much –
g
This is cool -- I was trying to get to my blog on the new computer (Thanks, Dad, Adrienne and Chris!!!!) and stumbled across this (link below). A podiatrist in OH is using the Post article about me in his information about foot deformities and RA:
http://www.sunsheinpodiatry.com/blog/?tag=rheumatoid-arthritis
Love you all!
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http://www.sunsheinpodiatry.com/blog/?tag=rheumatoid-arthritis
Love you all!
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A walk with my sisters and dad.
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